Your jealousy isn't the problem.
Fearing your jealousy is.

That spike of heat when your partner's eyes linger on someone else? That raw charge when they get the attention that should be yours? That's not weakness. That's power—showing you exactly what you want, where your edges are, what matters most.

But we've been taught to stuff it down. To treat jealousy like a character flaw instead of a compass.

What if jealousy could be... erotic?

Jealousy Playground: From Poison to Pleasure

An invitation to play

That's the premise of the Jealousy Playground, a weekend immersion I'm co-facilitating December 13-14 in Oakland.

This isn't therapy. This isn't about "managing" jealousy.

This is an erotic playground where we strip away the shame and bring jealousy into embodied play—through movement, voice, games, and touch.

Over two days, you'll explore jealousy as a portal into deeper intimacy and turn-on. You'll meet the parts of you that are possessive, tender, wild, envious—and discover they're not just acceptable. They're hot.

One past participant described it as: "micro-dosing intense emotions in a safe and supportive container." More testimonials here.

I'm co-facilitating with Leslie Rogers (Light Dark Institute) and Adam Chacksfield (Playing In The Dark)—two masters of shadow work who've transformed my own relationship with jealousy.

🎟️ LIMITED ADVANCED ADMISSION TICKETS:

1 duo ticket left (for couples or friends) — $900
A few solo tickets — $495

JOIN THE PLAYGROUND

Beyond jealousy lies compersion

Compersion is the joy of witnessing your partner's pleasure with someone else.

As a threesome facilitator, I engineer environments where compersion emerges. Where you shift from fear to celebrating your partner's aliveness.

Time and again, couples who tell me "we don't have any compersion" find it through my methodology. One couple shared: "We've both enlarged our worlds with new levels of compersion for each other... We have learned to take joyful leaps into the unknown."

If you're curious about experiencing compersion in a facilitated threesome—or want to explore if this work is right for you and your partner—let's talk.

SCHEDULE A CALL

You don't need the Jealousy Playground to do threesome work. But if you're feeling into both? The playground is powerful preparation.

With love,
Elaine

P.S. If the workshop isn't calling you, no worries. But if it is—trust that. This work is designed for the parts of you that are ready to play.