Elaine Love

Hi Reader! I've been quiet here lately—because I've been deep in the work. Over the last two months, I've been holding space for couples across the Bay, Austin, and Denver. Sessions focused on transforming intense jealousy into turn on. Women exploring their bi-curiosity. Moments where shame about desire melted into pleasure and joy. It's been beautiful. And ever since my interview on the podcast Normalizing Non-Monogamy aired, more couples have been reaching out. My calendar for spring is...

Hi Reader! Coming to Denver & Austin in January I'll be in Denver and Austin in January and have space for a few in-person Deep Dives and Immersions. Live in or near these cities? This is your chance to work together in person—and you won't need to cover my usual travel costs since I'm already there. When I'm available: Denver: January 18-19(January 15-16 possible if you reach out soon) Austin: January 21(January 19 possible if you reach out soon) There's something different about meeting...

Hi Reader! 🎁 Holiday Gift: $500 Off for 1 Final Couple Most New Year's gifts fade quickly. But imagine giving yourselves something that deepens your bond for years to come—an experience that expands how you love, desire, and trust each other. I have space for one more couple to receive my holiday gift: $500 off your threesome journey. This isn't just about the experience itself—it's about who you become together through it. Here's how it works: Step 1: Have your complimentary 30min Discovery...

Hi Reader! I've returned to sliding scales After experimenting with fixed pricing, I've come back to what feels true: sliding scale investment based on income and net worth—because I'm passionate about making this transformation accessible to all couples committed to growth. I've created a complete investment page (normally only accessible after you inquire) where you can explore everything: four distinct journey options—from a focused 1-day experience to a comprehensive 6-month relationship...

Hi Reader! There's a version of my story you might know from my About page. And then there's the full story—the one with all the messy, transformative moments that shaped who I am today. I shared it all in my interview on the podcast Normalizing Non-Monogamy (episode 421) which went live today. My full story, unfiltered It's 86 minutes of raw conversation. Here's a taste of what you'll hear: My first threesome: a week in threesome bliss with my best friend and her boyfriend.I'd never been...

Hi Reader! Here's a truth most people won't tell you: Your jealousy isn't the problem. Fearing your jealousy is. That spike of heat when your partner's eyes linger on someone else? That raw charge when they get the attention that should be yours? That's not weakness. That's power—showing you exactly what you want, where your edges are, what matters most. But we've been taught to stuff it down. To treat jealousy like a character flaw instead of a compass. What if jealousy could be... erotic?...

WELCOME TO MY VERY FIRST LOVE LETTER! Hi Reader! You've either found your way to my website or we've met at one of my workshops. However it happened, I'm glad we're connected. I'm Elaine Love, a threesome expert and pleasure expansion guide. My specialty is helping couples transform fantasy into profound connection. (More at elaine-love.com if you're curious.) I'll send occasional emails with workshop invitations, podcast interviews, insights, and things I think you'll find valuable. Prefer...